[am/incremental] make package unstartable if it crashes/ANRs while loading

BUG: 171252552
Test: atest CtsWindowManagerDeviceTestCases:AnrTests
Test: atest FrameworksServicesTests:AnrHelperTest
Test: atest FrameworksServicesTests:ActivityManagerServiceTest
Test: atest IncrementalStatesTest
Change-Id: I30c9aafc52ef1b6939bb724c11794b5a60661740
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